• They may feel insecure, unsafe.
• They may suffer low self-esteem, sadness, depression.
• They are at high risk for drug and alcohol abuse.
• They may have difficulties in school.
• Boys tend to use aggressive and violent behavior.
• Girls tend to withdraw.
• They may experience headaches, stomach aches, or asthma.
• A disruption in development may occur: learning disorders, speech and hearing problems, cognitive problems.

"I was too afraid to leave the relationship until I saw the effects his abuse had upon my children. Only when they became innocent victims of his violence and anger did I realize how much damage had been done." -a formerly battered woman